Gaynor Evans from Enfield, London says she began her love affair with younger men after hooking up with a 23-year-old following the divorce of her second husband in 2010.
She got married to her first husband at 18, with whom she had three children with, before divorcing him a decade later. In 1987, she got re-married to a man ten years younger than her, but that ended in 2010, leaving her single in her mid-forties before switching her attention to younger men.
According to her, toyboys are better in bed, and she never dates men older than 30 as they're the secret to keeping her young.
Gaynor, an author, and businesswoman said: "I'm one of the most openly prolific cougars out there.
"I'm not boasting about it and I know it's not for everyone, but I'm non-repentant.
I make no apologies for being a prolific cougar because it's a lifestyle choice and one I'm happy with.
"My sexual desire has never waned and I'm dating three men non-exclusively at the moment."
She also disclosed that she never dates exclusively and can have around three men on the go at one time, but her personality doesn't suit older men
She said: "I'm an older woman who has stepped outside convention - I'm very unusual. Although I'm nearly 60, I feel 30.
"I won't waste time worrying whether people judge me for having great sex with a 25-year-old.
"Older men need looking after, but younger men just enjoy life and don't have the baggage," she continued.
"Older men also tend to go for younger women.
"Younger men don't want mothering despite what people would think - they make you feel in touch with the world."
Speaking on her failed marriages, the businesswoman said: "My first husband and I married really young and we didn't really know what we were doing.
"When I met my second husband I was a single mum with three children and he was a decade younger.
"I was very busy with work and we just drifted apart.
"After being married twice I was launched back into single life. I was disillusioned.
"Being single in my late 40s was a shock, and I decided I had to change the ways I thought about things.
"I was terrified, as an older woman I struggled with my confidence so I reinvented myself."
While out with her daughters Laura, 38 and Katie, 39, the divorcee said she began to realise she was getting a lot of male attention
"I noticed I started getting approaches from younger guys while I was out with my daughters.
"Initially I thought they were just being polite but then I realised they were interested.
"It was an eye-opener - I couldn't believe they were flirting with me.
"Eventually, I went for it with a 23-year-old.
"Being intimate with him was a very uplifting experience, he was very adoring and flattering.
"That spurred me on and I went from strength to strength."
"I have never had a bad experience in bed with a younger man.
"The chemistry is very electric because as an older woman I'm confident - I've never been criticised.
"It's not just about the sex though. It's so far from that, it's about the conversation and the rapport. Feelings do get involved.
"I multi-date and I'm not exclusive with men because it would be unrealistic of me to expect the same from them.
"I know people who are 100 per cent faithful, but I think that a man's natural inclination is to spread his seed.
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